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Ask Dr Lena Li 11 months ago · updated 11 months ago · Dr. Lena Li, I have a real problem I hope you can help with. A girl in Shanghai and I have known each other for over 15 years. I am in San Francisco. She was here back then; choose to go back to Shanghai for family reasons. Over the years we have become best friends truly BFFs, including vacationing together, sharing our weekly if not daily lives…[Read more]
newbie posted a new activity comment 11 months ago ·
Dr Li, this is super helpful. I have been hesitant because I dont want to lose her. Being in this mode is not what I want but better than not having her in my life. Small step it is. Wish me luck!





Wow, it sounds like what you have with her is incredibly special. A 15-year bond like that, filled with shared experiences and emotional intimacy, doesn’t come around often. And the fact that you’re still so close despite the distance speaks volumes.
But I totally get your hesitation. Risking a deep friendship is scary. That said, staying s…[Read more]
Dr Li, this is super helpful. I have been hesitant because I dont want to lose her. Being in this mode is not what I want but better than not having her in my life. Small step it is. Wish me luck!