How to Ask a Model on a Date by Putri Cinta

Although we’ve featured Putri previously, she has since launched her own website, and a while back she posted a featured portfolio and her own feature article, which you can read after the jump. She is IMHO a truly exceptional model. —the Doc

Hey guys! Well, I launched my own website at and realized I need to write articles to get google to know I exist! I am just learning to write now and English isn’t my first language. So here is my first article. People are always asking me how my dating life is (not as exciting as you think!) so I thought I would write about how to date a model… let me know what you think :)

Many people dream of dating a model, but most don’t know where to start. Luckily, I’m here to shed some light on the subject. My name is Putri Cinta, and I work as a nude model. You might have seen me featured in Playboy magazine. As a model myself, I have gained some fascinating insight into the modeling world, and how models think. Here are my tips to help you get the girl of your dreams.

1. We are just like you
Never forget that models are just like everyone else! Men and women might be afraid to approach me because of my job, but believe me when I say that we are more similar than you think. Same as you, we have hobbies, desires, fears, and secrets. The more you focus on the fact that we are models, the less interested we will be in you.

When you want to get to know a model better, remember not to treat them differently. Do your best to create a genuine connection, even if it’s something as simple as talking about their interests and sharing yours. Don’t pretend to be someone you are not, because it will only come back to hurt you. Be honest and candid. The best relationships are built on trust and a genuine connection.

2. Be direct
It can be intimidating to walk up to a gorgeous woman, but remember that all women love attention. I am no exception! As long as you’re being respectful, no woman will say no to a charming smile and flirtatious words. I love it when a man gives me his undivided attention. It makes me feel special, and it gives me the chance to really get to know him.

That being said, not every woman is the same. Don’t be afraid to turn up the flirtation if she seems to like it, or tone it down if she looks uncomfortable. I personally love it when a man straightforwardly flirts with me, but not every woman is like me.

3. Don’t focus on our looks
As a model, I am always judged on my looks. Every inch of my face and body has been commented on. Unlike other women, who might not hear many compliments or criticisms about their bodies, we listen to it all, every day. There is more to us than just our bodies or our faces. I want to connect with a man on a personal level. I want him to understand my heart, and for me to understand his. When approaching a model, focus past their looks to the person within. Notice her quirks, her good personality traits, and compliment her on that instead. You’ll see her entire face light up right away!

4. Don’t make it too sexual
A bit of sexual tension adds an incredible spark to life. However, no woman wants to feel like the man talking to them is just after sex. Because I am a nude model, a lot of people think that I will jump into bed with anyone, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Deep down, even the most independent, sexual woman wants to be treated with gentleness and care. Although you might find a model very sexually attractive and would love to have sex with her, save those comments for the bedroom, not the first meeting. Now, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t flirt. I love flirting, and a couple sexual innuendos will definitely make me giggle, but I prefer to save the dirty talk for the bedroom. Once you’ve built a stable relationship, you will have plenty of time to show off your sex-god skills.

5. Be comfortable providing
Believe it or not, but most models can’t pay the bills with their jobs. Although modeling can be a fun and rewarding job, it doesn’t pay a lot. I’m not telling you this for pity, but to be honest about the realities of dating a model. If you are a natural provider, you will thrive in a relationship with a model. She will shower you in affection, and you can provide her with the everyday luxuries her salary cannot afford, like a fancy dinner date or a new winter coat.

Those are my insights into what it takes to date a model. I hope you found this entertaining and educating! I have yet to find love myself, but I am open and excited about what this world has to offer. So the next time you meet a model, don’t be afraid to approach her. You never know what could happen.



  1. Avatar of DeepSky

    Ms. Cinta is quite spectacular, and probably deserving of being featured here on a monthly basis; I know that I wouldn’t get tired of seeing her! Putri along with Cruzlyn from a few months back probably have the most gorgeous skin tones and sexiest images of any sirens featured here in a very long time.

    I wish her good luck on new endeavors!

  2. av’s avatar

    oo la la… Gorgeous!

  3. Calvin’s avatar

    What a gorgeous woman, just spectacular!

  4. Avatar of wingsfan19

    TL;DR: You gotta be rich!

    Putri looks great though, of course.

  5. Avatar of Luke

    Nice article, I really enjoy the change up.

    I signed up to Putri’s site a couple of weeks ago and can thoroughly recommend it for those considering it.

    Putri I imagine get a fair few people cracking on to you, what are some of the funnier moments or pick up lines they have used? More importantly what might work ;)

  6. Avatar of PerthMike

    I love her skin tone and she does have a really cute body and I’m sure she does have a lovely smile ….
    But I’m probably not going to get many viewers here agreeing with me saying that unfortunately (for me) her breast enhancement just looks too artificial. My last SO (Viet) had breast augmentation and my best friend also (hers look stunning – she is half Chinese) so I am not against the procedure but they can vary tremendously. For me seeing her in a bra is more sexy, my imagination works better on her boobs than seeing them bare.

  7. Avatar of Seems


    Have to agree with you. Overall she’s a very attractive woman – her face is gorgeous and her skin tone is beautiful, but I find her enhancements painful to look at.

  8. Avatar of Dr. Lee


    Oh yeah, I’m sure it must really hurt to look at those lovely boobs. :lol:

    Putri is extremely lean, so it is inevitable her implants are going to look firm and round. And IMHO, they suit her perfectly—she is a hard body after all, and I think the proportions are excellent.

    Also bear in mind that Putri is almost certainly going to be reading this: I hope that might make the anti-implant brigade finally state their opinion more sensitively.

  9. Bas’s avatar

    Lovely creature. Not sure I agree with her views she describes in the article.

  10. Avatar of Seems

    Dr. Lee,

    Your point is well noted and I meant no offense. She is undoubtedly a beautiful woman, I just would have loved to have seen her with her natural physique.

  11. Stephen R Puckett’s avatar

    Very beautiful, I especially love her breast !

  12. Avatar of HockeyWASP

    Stunning. Probably a year or two till that ballistic boob job softens up a bit, but I don’t mind waiting.

  13. Avatar of DeepSky

    I totally agree with the good Doctor; Ms. Cinta’s enhancements are an excellent match for her lean, fit body! Putri is one beautiful, sexy young woman.

    Putri, if you’re reading this, I wish you great success, and I hope you’ll be modeling for many years to come!

  14. Avatar of Seems

    Dr. Lee wrote:

    Try here.

    Ah yes, now I remember! Gorgeous!

  15. David’s avatar

    She didn’t need the boob job. Hot without. Still hot. js

  16. Balgor’s avatar

    Love the beautiful cocoa skin and the implants are tasteful. Very much balgor approved.

  17. Avatar of arf

    an absolutely delightful heavenly treat! if I were ever dating a woman this perfect and she broke up with me, I seriously don’t think I would ever function or be the same ever again

  18. Avatar of wingsfan19

    Dr. Lee,

    I prefer the before, but the after is still great!

  19. Avatar of ProfAbe

    “If you are a natural provider, you will thrive in a relationship with a model. She will shower you in affection, and you can provide her with the everyday luxuries her salary cannot afford.”

    At least she is honest about it.

    Beautiful girl and a dynamite body. I’d happily “provide” for a weekend.

  20. Avatar of MaJieMao

    Nice and honest, basically you got money and not a ass you got a good chance.

  21. Avatar of ProfAbe

    Her site is very expensive but at least now the posts are getting more explicit. She was gorgeous with her natural breasts but the implants aren’t as overwhelming as some. She’s a personal favorite. I love her skin tone and smile. And that cute little ass, too.